..."I Nor Dey Proud O", "Nor Be My Nature To Dey Proud o"... Sharp Little Success Says. lol

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Success is a very bright little girl.
She is adorable and brilliant. Good thing she was brought to limelight sooner. She will make a wonderful actress. Not every child was opportune to hold down the attention of the world. Lucky child.

Just listen to her talk, this girl is going places... See  video below.


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